Woman is the Desire Within Man

Did anything from my previous articles make you go "Aha!"? I mentioned two conditions existing in nature: "taking" and "giving." Now, is it clear why there are two sexes and that the qualities of both sexes also exist within us as chromosomes? Life shows us ourselves, like a mirror… Women want… The desire for something within a man is the feminine part, the quality of taking. These two qualities have shaped not only male-female relationships but all human relationships for generations. In fact, there is only one relationship between people: "I took, I gave."

When a woman unites with a man, woman is the force that drives man to work, acquire, build a home, and the force that manages the home, that holds the family together and nurtures it.

According to the qualities given by nature, man is the power that "gives" and woman is the power that is "creative, the bearer of new phases and their development."

That is why she gives birth and raises the new generation. That is why whatever a man does, even if unconsciously, his actions stem from the desires awakened within a woman. In other words, the desire, need, sense of lack that arises within a person is the force that drives them to action.

All order in nature—animals, plants, and naturally we ourselves—operates according to such a program. The negative feeling of lack in nature activates the positive force. Because we are busy pursuing the satisfaction of our desires, we neither stop to think about nor feel the workings of nature. Yet in nature, the female part is always the foundation and determining factor of every step forward.

In his subconscious, man asks himself: "I wonder if she will see me as good, successful, etc. with what I do?"

Nature is exactly like this… That is why woman must take responsibility in guiding, encouraging, and adjusting man's behavior. It's not very difficult… In the old days, man was pampered by his mother with "Oh my son, my lion!" Now, as his wife, you will do the same and manage him that way… Therefore, woman, in her role, has the capacity to actively manage the situation…

A clever woman can twist a man around her finger as she wishes. I am sure every woman knows this. It's in your nature… Woman gives inspiration, direction, and desire… Man takes action, goes hunting, takes risks, truly surpasses himself…

Until our generation… We are in an interesting period… We have reached a new phase in our evolutionary period… In the past, we could manage this relationship beautifully… But it's no longer like that… Our parents don't understand us… But our grandparents understood our parents, their relationships seemed closer…

Our generation crossed a threshold, and the sensitive among us began to feel this in every aspect of our lives. This is evident in the news… Violence, discord, children leaving home, conflicts between different segments of society, etc., are in the news every day…

Together, we need to reflect a bit on the dissatisfaction and societal decline we have experienced recently… Because we are not heading toward good… And if a person is forced to change due to lack of choice, it comes with great suffering… That is why we must now take our personal development into our own hands and adapt ourselves to the laws and flow of nature…

To come together… In the article "Why Can't You Love Others?" I explained that love is not what it seems… What is called love is a fairy tale… If you haven't read the article, read it and you'll understand…

The criteria we look for when seeking a partner are wrong… They say birds of a feather flock together… But our eyes are always looking upward… In 2010, I was at a conference in Berlin, I have a very good French friend, somewhat short and slightly bald… And he asked a question: "Should I marry a beautiful woman, or would someone with common traits suffice…?" Another friend replied: "Make sure she's pleasant, but first look in the mirror, remember what you look like, then search…" Additionally, similar upbringing, similar family structure, and coming from a shared background are beneficial for prospective couples… A tip for the ladies too… If you are like his mother, you have nothing to worry about…